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( Satyam eva jayate - the truth is right here )

Just see the extremes that we go to in order to attract your attention
and provide a solution to your spiritual enquiry.

last updated 3rd January  2017

There are no lude discussions here, no "adult links, pics" etc. This is an information page specifically
to assist in making a clear definition as to what is Krishna consciousness and what is not.

If you are attracted to neither male nor female, you are liberated

Prabhupada turned into an abandoned field where we saw many peacocks -- the resplendent males as well as the plainer females.

Guru dasa remarked, "Among the birds, the males are more beautiful than the females."

"Among the humans the women are," said Prabhupada. "And among the Mohammedans a man with a big beard and mustache is considered very beautiful."

"Then we are the least beautiful," said Guru dasa. "We have no hairs."

"Yes, nobody likes us," said Prabhupada, smiling. "We are neither male or female. No one knows who we are. It is very good. If you are attracted to neither male nor female, you are liberated."

Prabhupada had everyone laughing, but even the humorous moment was deep with self-realization. As I hurried to keep my servant's place at Prabhupada's side, I felt all my desires for seeing Vrndavana through his eyes were being fulfilled. He was truly leading us into the meaning of the dhama. If only I could stop dwelling on bodily and mental considerations and simply surrender to his service.

- From the "Life with the Perfect Master" by HH Satsvarupa Dasa Goswami

Some of our congregation have approached me to make some comment on the pros' and cons' of the various forms and deviations of sex life that are so prevailent in modern society. In Vedik Culture sex is little dealt with, it is seen as a function of procreation rather than a central focus for the people's pleasure and sub-culture.

It has its shastra like KAma sutras, which today have been very much over estimated, mostly taken out of context and over emphaised for sensual pleasures only, minimising functionality, and cultural values associated with the adherants of such sutras - a little like the accepting the egg producing rear end of the chicken while neglecting to fulfill the demands of the mouth end. If one carefully studies the KAma sutra one will find many restrictions, and guidelines meant to protect the chaste and faithful, while fulfilling the needs and desires of the masses. I had to study it during my time at University studying Social Anthropology. That is a whole different discussion, that thankfully I'm not giving energy toward getting involved in.

Here we are attempting to address some of these topics from a Krishna conscious perspective, and frankly have no interest in any other misdirected understanding or attempt to enjoy or suffer any other directive for which these activities have become known today.

Srimad Bhagavad Gita gives the bottom line on sex, where Lord Sri Krishna asures His devotee, dharmäviruddho bhüteshu kämo ’smi bharatarshabha - "I am sex life which is not contrary to religious principles, Oh Lord of the Bhäratas [Arjuna]". (Bhagavad Gita 7:1.)

"Marriage on the principles of religious life is therefore
current in all civilized human society
because that is the way for restricted sex life."
(His Divine Grace A.C. Bhaktivedanta Swami Prabhupada.Bhagavad Gita4:26.purport.)

"Kandarpa is the sex desire for presenting
   good sons; therefore Kandarpa is the representative of Krsna.
   Sometimes sex is engaged in only for sense gratification; such sex
   does not represent Krsna. But sex for the generation of good
   children is called Kandarpa and represents Krsna."
(His Divine Grace A.C. Bhaktivedanta Swami Prabhupada. Bhagavad Gita 10:28.purport.)

Before readers comment, and put forward what form of sex is preferable to them, the fact needs to be stated that choice or preference in sense gratification as mentioned in the above quoted extract has nothing to do with this page. This page is simply about what is presented by shastra, and what is upheld by pure Vaishnava Acharyas. Certainly other ideas and ideals may be found as there are 18 Puranas, some in the mode of goodness, some in the mode passion, and some in the mode of ignorance, thus all manner of things can be supported in Vedik culture. Having said that, let us look to see what is conducive to becoming detached from material entanglement, and to become attached to Lord Sri Krishna, and then aspire to follow that path.

In that regard, we have some nice links here that will help one to aim in that Sattvik pantha (direction of the mode of goodness) at least.

Brahmacharya - celibacy:
Celibacy an option or conscious decision for a higher goal:
Brahmacharya - Celibacy:
Teens and Celibacy by Urmila Devi Dasi
Celibacy—Exquisite Torture, or a “Yes to God”?
Eight aspects of brahmacharya,  by Sridhar Swami, the Bhagavatam commentator.

Brahmacharya II - Rama Krishna mission - good article
The Value of Continence - a scientific look at celibacy
More articles and links to Celibacy here:
“Any type of monogamy devoid of celibacy is useless.” - Sita Pati dasa

Langota - brahmin underwear: understanding its function

"Repression of the impulses results in paranoid" - Macho misogynists:
The syndrome of Bhut graha - false renunciation - the eccentric results:

The Four Regulative Principles of Freedom

Immortal Longings by Ravindra Swarup dasa

Hypocrisy - Srila Prabhupad speaks out "Bachelor daddy"

Human Sexuality is complex  (an interesting broad presentation......on Sexuality)

Illicit sex outside of marriage is illicit sex with a capital ‘I’ and illicit sex within marriage is the small ‘i’ by Chaitanya Charan das

Importance of marriage for women - from Mahabharata

Pay attention to whom you share your intimate energy with (Article)

Austerity and Pleasure: Managing Our Sexuality While Waiting for Transcendence - by Umila devi dasi ACBSP

Marriage and Marriage Compatibility:
The Meaning of Marriage - by HDG Srila A.C.Bhaktivedanta Swami Prabhupad

Sacred Marriage - practical advice

Overview of the essential principles of the Griha sutras.

.....folks, do not cohabit before marriage... all scriptures forbid it because God knows what is best for us... here's some empiric research: (Urmilla dd)

An Ethnography Involving Insights And Details For Compatibility Or Incompatibility Of Marriage
According To Muhurtha Shastra, And Relative Corressponding Works, Involving Scientific Research
And Observer Participation.

Principles of Vedik Marriage Synastry According to Muhurtha Astrology and Kuta System

Article on Arranged Marriage submitted by His Grace Madhavananda Prabhu

Vivaha samskara talk - "Give more than you take" spoken by Indradyumna Swami - June 3, 2006

Sex with meat-eaters off the menu

I Love You, but You Love Meat

On Marriage and Divorce - by HH Radhanath Swami

Marriage related pages by Radhanath Swami

Family Life: Srila Prabhupada and Srila Bhaktivinoda Thakura speak on various aspects of........
The secret of successful long term Krishna conscious householder life
Ideal families --- the verdict of all Acharyas
The Sum and Substance of Progressive and Positive Family Life in Krishna Consciousness

While living in this material world - by Srila Bhaktivinod Thakur 1896.

How to be an Ideal Husband by HH Radhanath Swami

Help ! My Husband Is Not a Devotee ! by Rohininandan prabhu

How to bring into this world "Ray of Vishnu" good quality devotional children?

Birth Of A Devotee - by Srila Bhaktisiddhanta Saraswati Thakur Prabhupada

Finding What Works for the Long Haul—for the Institution of Marriage and for Marriages
(reprinted from ISKCON Communication Journal #91 September 2001)

Family Matters - Family Matters – part one
The Importance of Understanding Family Dynamics

Family Matters – part two
Dealing with Illicit Sex

Family Matters - part three
Spiritual Lovers

Growing together as a couple (not written by devotees)

Someone sent me several nice quotes about marriage etc that may be of use or interest to you.

The Disposition of women - from

Vedic View of Women - by HH Bhakti Raghava Goswami

Women in Vedic Culture by Sri Nandanandana dasa ACBSP (Stephen Knapp)

How do women benefit from wearing sattvik ornaments?

A Tribute to Women in Hinduism - how women previously were venerated in Vedic times

Women in Sri Vaishnavam  By V Sadagopan

Women and the quality of Shyness - from Hari Sauri prabhu's Diary

Women and the Laws of Manu - Q & A with Swami B. V. Tripurari

"Where women are respected, the demigods hang around there; where they are not respected, all actions are fruitless". Manu smriti 3:56

Are Women Duplicitous and Selfish According to Srimad Bhagavatam? (Part 1) 24th Oct 2014

Women not barred from learning Vedas

Garbhadana Samkara - The Difference Between Good Progeny and Varna-sankara.
Birth of a Devotee by Srila Bhaktisiddhanta Saraswati Thakur Prabhupad

Vaishnava Family Resources web site

Top ten myths of divorce - worth a read
Effects of Divorce
Divorce ‘Health Scars Permanent’

Unplanned Unwanted Children - by HDG Srila A.C. Bhaktivedanta Swami Prabhupad

On Child Marriage

Why do men ignore nagging wives? It's all science

Understanding, the new mantra - Couples, priests adapt ceremony to comprehend meaning of rituals


Relationships in the grihasta ashram - presented by HH Bhakti Vidya Purna Swami ACBSP

Vaishnava Family Resources -  created by the Grihastha Vision Team, is for Vaishnava Families
many useful articles, and tips, well worth a surf

Schooling Krishna's Children, Teens and Celibacy - by Urmilla Devi dasi ACBSP

The position of Women in the Sri-Vaishnava Sampradaya

Sexual Liberation Is About Slavery

On Child Marriage - from "Glimpses of Traditional Indian Life," by HH Bhakti Vikas Swami

Role of Vedic Women in Ancient India - Subhamoy Das

Material & Spritual - Finding the Ballance - Mother Urmila devi dasi ACBSP

On Calling Women Prabhu - Sivarama Swami (Why is this in practice in some parts of ISKCON, and where was it introduced?)

Sexual Orientation - Graysexual, Pansexual, Zucchini, Skpliosexual

The Joint Family:
The Micro, Meso, Exo, and Macro stuctrual systems society 

A Social Study of the Joint Family Tradition:
Chanakhya Pandit on the Joint Family (from Kautiliya's Artha shastra)

A Social Study of the Benefits of the Joint Family System
In Defense of the Joint Family System

A Social Study of the Benefits of the Joint Family System
Kinds of Friends

A Social Model for ISKCON - by a subcommittee of the Indian Continental Committee
Sri Sri Sva-Niyama-Dvadasakam - "12 Verses of My Own SELF-IMPOSED REGULATIVE PRINCIPLES" - Srila Bhaktivinod Thakura

Madh-Mama_ The psychology of the Indian Mother-in-law (worth a read)

Health in the family:  PMS, PMT
Equal Rights
Feminism's devolution from hoaxers to whores - by Kathleen Parker

Article from the New York Times called Contra-Contraception By RUSSELL SHORTO

Emotional Wiring Different in Men and Women

Evolution of the Swimsuit - Jessica Ray swimsuit deseigner talks of modesty
Modesty: A Different View from Young Men
The Modesty Video - a girl's perspective

Sharing a bed - a disruptive practice

Breastfeeding: Good For Babies, Mothers, And The Planet

School Trains Women to be Submissive, Ideal Wives!

Recommended information for pregnancy, birth, baby and school for devotees - Sudevi dasi

Mother's diet during pregnancy alters baby's DNA

Pumsavanam samskara

Men being discriminated against: (Everyone needs to be aware of this - its for REAL)
Introduction to the Female Paedophile
Women Who Sexually Abuse Children

Sex Attraction:
"Don't Aggravate it" (simple terms to understand - nice lecture excerpt by Srila Prabhupad)
Sex is sex - Srila Prabhupad states as all sex is bondage, but "the sex life between man and woman can be sanctified by marriage."
....speaking on sex - vagina licking civilization

Dimensions of Good and Evil. - The Value of the Human Form

Sex and Love

"Expert at rape" controversy explained nicely

Sex Desire - Urmilla Devi dasi ACBSP - CC_Madhya_Lila_08-138_-_Sex_Desire_-_2008-08-09_Villa_Vrindavan.Mp3

Delhi Gang-Rape and the modern Shurapanakha - by Iskcon Bangalore (12th Jan 2013)

Same sex relationships in ISKCON (YouTube Video) - Kadamba Kanan Swami

Sex: Licit & Illicit:
many quotes from the books of Srila Prabhupada
Kinds and Degrees of Illicit Sex by Urmila devi dasi

TV stirs up teenagers' sexual drive: Study
Why discriminate between different sex desire

Masturbation - from Brahmacharya by Bhakti vikas swami
Do all sperm have souls?

Pornography - Porn:
Toxic Porn, Toxic Sex: A Real Look at Pornography

Real Misogyny: Is Porn really that Harmful?

How is Porn Harmful?

Children damaged by 'diet of pornography' (article of May 30, 2013)

Prostitution - exploitation of women:
Prostitution (Vishya Kanya - Eunuchs)

Talk Show host Oprah Winfrey speaks out, with guest former Video Vixen Karrina Steffans & Pink - Smart Women on "Stupid Girls"
This is a must to see and read, exposing the manipulative men who show women as cheap Hos, for our daughters to follow.

Srila Prabhupada: “Prostitutes are necessary citizens for the proper upkeep of society”

Actual Women's liberation - conversation with Srila A.C. Bhaktivedanta Swami Prabhupad
Women's Liberation condemned by Srila Prabhupada:
More sites establishing the Vedik perspective and exposing modern western misconceptions that exploit
women through; women's rights, so-called equality etc.

The He Hormone - Article
Anti-Sexist sites ( a myriad of sites from Critique on Feminism - Men's Rights - Child Abuse etc )
More links to sites that expose the motive and intent and frailties of the Feminazi partys'

Dominant Women don't get Husbands... - article

In Scandinavia's equality central, an antifeminist backlash? (24th December 2005)
A female ex-gurukuli speaks out againt mundane feminism, and power tripping men  (see her page)

Reactionary sites/pages from hurting party's
What is the women's movement for? ( some very good articles by deeply wounded men )

Articles explaining the differences in cultures and civilizations

Social terrorism by so-called Women's Rights groups
On Independence Day, 'harassed husbands' to demand 'freedom'

Child Prostitution

My Brief Against Feminism by Narada Priya devi dasi

Feminism, Pt 1 - Defining the Feminist Problem
Feminism, Pt 2 - The Death of Distinction
Feminism, Pt 3 - Manhood Criminalized
Feminism, Pt 4 - Women Sold Short
Feminism, Pt 5 - Confessions of a G.I. Jane
Feminism, Part 6 - Backlash
Feminism, Pt 7 - What Now?

How feminism conned society, and other not-so-tall tales...

Women Gurus In Kali Yuga? an article written by Govinda dasi ACBSP (4th December 2012)
On the Subject of Female Diksha Gurus by Phalini devi dasi ACBSP (7th December 2012)

#WomenAgainstFeminism goes viral as people explain why they don't need feminism anymore  (2014)

Homosexuality - Iskcon's Policy on homosexuality spoken by Iskcon's Founder Acharya
- Srila Prabhupada speaks on Homosexuaity
- All Prabhupada's quotes on Homosexuality - it is totally condemned for devotees -
worth reading if in doubt, confused or inclined toward it, or pressured by
public opinion into accepting it as normal for devotees, brahmins and
Vaishnavas to indulge in. It is not. Make an informed spiritual decision !!!

"Gay Monogamy" - Chaste Harlots by Danavir dasa Goswami ACBSP

- Female Homosexuality condemned in Manu:
- Sex is sex - Srila Prabhupad states homosexuality as 'This is very low class'

- An interesting Indian perspective on the accusation that those opposed to homosexuality are Victorian

- The Truth About Religion and Homophobia

- What the National Council of Hinduism (UK) says about Homosexuality

-Dealing with and overcoming homosexuality practically in spiritual life - by B.A. Paramdvaiti swami
- the Rise of the Homosexual Priesthood in Catholic America: A Model for Undermining Celibacy Within ISKCON?
- How to handle homosexuality and those with homosexual desires in simple terms
- Discussions on gay marriage on Dipika:  (mirrored here)

- Jayadvaita Swami speaks out on Homosexuality

- "Down on the farm" a lighthearted video snippet

Pederasty or paederasty (homosexual relationship between an adult male and a pubescent or adolescent male)

Dispelling Homophobia - By Yugala Kishor Dasa (Gainesville, Florida)

Hermaphrodites as a material condition and not a sexual preference:

The differences between Hermaphrodite, Inter-sexual and Trans-sexual, etc:

Inter-sexuality as different from, yet in some connected to Homosexuality and Trans-sexuality (Intersex Society of North America):


The "Ali" Transexuals - not a new fad to Hinduism (also here)

Tritiya Prakriti - People of the third sex: (with introduction so as not to mislead.....)
Eunuchs Have No Lust for Women
Castration Is Not Vedic        (response by a homosexual sympathizer GALVA propagandist)

Homosexuality is not for Brahmins and Vaishnavas    (also here by author of Kaama sutra)
The Pope agrees with us - homosexuals not suitable for priesthood.

Former Homosexual Says 'No One Is Born Gay'

Homosexuality and totalitarianism - a clear vision of the situation

Same sex "marriage"
Condemnation of Same Sex Marriage
How same-sex marriage threatens liberty
Discussions on gay marriage on Dipika:  (mirrored here)
Same Sex Marriage: Legitimate or  Illegitimate? - by Sankarshan dasa Adhikary ACBSP
"Gay Monogamy" - Chaste Harlots by Danavir dasa Goswami ACBSP
Same sex relationships in ISKCON (YouTube Video) - Kadamba Kanan Swami

Same sex marriage discussion with Nara Narayan Vishvakarma dasa ACBSP and wife on Facebook

Other sexual inclinations:
Bondage - Sadomasochism  - simple terms
Incest (sex with mother or daughter, or son or father, etc)

Child Protection: See the Links HERE

Association for the Protection of Vaishnava Children:

Cyber Sexual:
The Cyber Sex Addiction FAQ and related topics
Masturbation - wasting of the dhatus

How many are lured into Internet pornography by predators seeking the young and innocent
This is a true story from the Oprah Winfrey show, and how a pedophile ring was smashed

On Child Marriage - from "Glimpses of Traditional Indian Life," by HH Bhakti Vikas Swami

Pedophiles Want Same Rights As Homosexuals By Lauren Richardson
Whopping Pedophilia 'Sexual Orientation' Error Sparks Right-Wing Freakout
Pedophiles want same rights as homosexuals - original article by Jack Minor

Child Abuse: Seed of Child Abuse
Sadly - There are as many Women Pedofiles as Men:
Are We Better Off? Ask The Children.

Abortion The Ultimate In Child Abuse
More Jewish women kill jewish children in the womb than were killed in the Holocaust

As Many Abortions As Possible by Mike W. Perry - reflections on Hitler and modern day policy

Selective Abortion: Ten Million Girls "Missing" In India

Freeze Dried Fetus:
Several mentions of fetal earrings ect
Fetus key ring

See Domestic Violence section below:

No Question of Hating Women - HDG Srila A.C. Bhaktivedanta Swami Prabhupad

3 in 4 B.C. boys on street sexually exploited by women
Female Sex Offenders - Female Sexual Predators

Domestic Violence:
Violence in the home - in general - overview of DV & V

Women Against Domestic Violence
Females against Males - The other aggressor in domestic violence
Now REALLY see the impact of the Kali yuga @ Men and Domestic Violence Index

Rethinking Our Responses to Intimate Abuse

Reaction To Women Abusing Men In Public & visa versa (Requires broadband)
On Independence Day, 'harassed husbands' to demand 'freedom'


Best Intentions — Dynamics of Spiritual Abuse by Bhaktavatsala dasa (German)

"Expert at rape" controversy explained nicely

Understanding the motive and intent behind the concept of child marriage in India
Why Child Marriage from Hindu Dharma

Vasectomy - What Happens to a Man’s Body After a Vasectomy?

Dealing with Lust:

Heart to Heart Counselling Service Bookshop 4 Recovering Sex-addicts:

Sex addiction - seeking help:

Spiritual Solutions - Understanding the entirity of the problem - material exploitive engrossment !!!
...the solution to expose people to the basics to our culture - harinam, deity worship, prasadam
- and display our social responsibility.

Restoring Srila Prabhupada's ISKCON (NOT ritvik affiliated)
Report abuse World Wide (child abuse, abuse of women, stealing of money, homosexuality, etc)
All reports are confidential and if needed, reported to local police.

Future hope in hands of Iskcon: by Mr GL Mehta, former President of the South Taranaki (NZ) Indian Association.

10 Absolutely Insane Things People Used To Believe About The Female Body

Vaishnava Family Resources web site

Association for the Protection of Vaishnava Children:

Health and Spirituality Support Group Where I've Been, Where I Am Now, How I Proceed: An Historical Assessment of My Journey through Illness:

Iskcon Health & Spirituality Support Group: Accommodating Spirituality and Illness:

Laughter Therapy - its no joke:

Some tips from "How It Was" to How it can be!!!

More Self Help HERE


Your expectation of seeing something is as rediculous as this picture.

Of course beastiality - sex with any other species than that of birth is illict.
We do not take advantage of, or abuse or exploit animals in any way. In
fact the opposite, we give protection to them